Archive for the ‘Positive Habits’ Category

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Our Sacred Temple!

October 21, 2009

One way or another, we all have heard, read, learned about the importance of Physical exercise and all its many benefits. What may be missing to some of us out there is the willingness to BEGIN exploring the world of Physical Activity beyond our regular “comings and goings” of every day life.

Today, as the Child/Youth Honoring Leader I am, and because I honor You as a whole and care for YOUR well being, I invite you to please consider very seriously taking the first step on a journey of physical activity. If you are One who does not regularly exercise, I encourage You to begin TODAY with a 30 minute walk daily. Just a walk. Grab your family, grab your friends! Worse case scenario, when they are not available to join you, get your mp3 player/ipod and get out there!

Did you know that walking daily for only 30 minutes can increase your life by 5 years? FIVE YEARS! Wow! Pretty powerful, is it not? Could you enjoy an extra FIVE years in the company of those you LOVE and Care for? Would you be happy with an extra FIVE years of bringing your DREAM professional path to life? How would that impact your life? Well, *that* seemingly impossible journey begins with ONE STEP! Take yours, TODAY! An average of 17 Days and VOILA:  a habit is formed! Can you agree to 17 days? Than You are agreeing, moving forward, to a lifetime of physical activity!!! YEAH!!!

Here are a few resources as you move in the direction of your PHYSICAL POWERHOUSE, Enjoy!

Benefits of Walking

Benefits of Jump Roping

Ropeless Jump Rope

May you treasure your Physical Temple for the rest of your precious living life! :)
The Light within Me HONORS the Light within YOU!
Selma,
Chief Child/Youth Honoring Leader at
The Dream Believe Inspire Institute
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired

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A Sacred Space….

July 22, 2009

Sonhei by Lenine

The most sacred space lives within You!
That space where you know you can always find your most inner and authentic self. Take time to go there. Create the space allowing You to go within often. Daily? Why not? This will help you get connected with who you really are and that One You is the one who will shine, the One who will more often be shared with the world around You.

In your journeys into your inner self, invite your Children and Young Ones. Take the time to sit down and go within, with them. Share with them this precious habit. 

Your Chldren and Young Ones may choose to resist. After years of sharing spirituality and all the many teachings and beliefs of a joyful and healthy life, I still witness my very own beautifully spirited teenage daughter resist.

It is an illusion! Resistance is comfortable, is easy….. is it? Not really. It may appear easy since it allows for us to be within our comfort zones. However, in reality, it is far from easy for its outcome brings many easily avoidable challenges. The price of resistance is significantly high. The extend of our inner growth is directly connected with the extend of our willingness to expand our comfort zone!

Today create and nurture a belief within yourself that tells you that resisting what you believe in your heart will make the goodness in you flourish, what you believe in your heart will make you a joyful and harmonious human being, You will no longer resist! Believe within yourself this to be true and You will see how much more powerful You will become!

So, when You witness the Young Ones in your life resist, disregard this apparent resistance. Move forward in Love, in a renewed belief that insisting on helping them learn to create the space to go within may be the one thing that can transform their entire life. It may be the divine ONE thing that can assist them in becoming more at peace with themselves, for through it they will KNOW the path to their most sacred space: their INNER SELF.

May you have the courage to go there every single day of your precious life.

Selma Santos,
Child/Youth Honoring Leader
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired

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Your GIFT in 2009! Treasure It, for It is YOURS!

January 1, 2009

Happy New Year!

With a new year, a brand NEW YEAR comes a GIFT for YOU! A VERY PRECIOUS GIFT just for you! From the Heavens above you have received another very precious gift. Imagine it wrapped in a beautiful box, colored blue, with a BIG bow colored with your favorite color! 

What is it? Open it! See? It’s BEAUTIFUL and oh! so PRECIOUS: 525,600 minutes! In 2009 you have been reserved 31,536,000 seconds! Did you read that? 31,536,000 seconds!!!

What are you going to do with them? That is where your focus should be as you begin the journey! How will you treasure this precious gift of time? 
Go within. How can you HONOR this precious gift? Ask the questions? You will see that by asking the questions, you will find the answers! 

I have gone within. I always go within. For the past 7 years of my life I have began the habit of taking the New Year as an opportunity of getting a major look at my own “picture”. I look at it all from above. I mentally remove myself from it and look at it from high above. How does it look like? I am going in the direction of my Vision? How did I use MY GIFT of time? MY TIME! How do I intend to honor it moving into the New Year?

I keep reminding myself that it is not only “just another year” starting. It is 365 days, 52 weeks, and what I am doing each moment counts! :) With goals, with set intentions, it becomes so much easier to understand in which direction we are moving. I have lived without them, and I have lived with them. And having done both, I can firmly and knowledgeably say: I am so much happier when I have a sense of direction. I KNOW in my heart what I am working for. 

I know what takes me out of bed in the morning. Do you? How clear is your WHY? In my experience, only by having set intentions for each moment of my life do I feel I am moving forward with my life’s vision, mission, and purpose….my life’s calling!

I always stop and go within. For this season and in line with wishing to have intentions set for the New Year, I would love to share a prayer with you. Inspired by the thoughts and Divine intentions behind the words in this prayer, I set my intentions for 2009. I encourage you to focus on the wisdom and divinity behind each word.
Enjoy!

“Lord, make me a channel of thy peace,
that where there is hatred, I may bring love;
that where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of forgiveness;
that where there is discord, I may bring harmony;
that where there is error, I may bring truth;
that where there is doubt, I may bring faith;
that where there is despair, I may bring hope;
that where there are shadows, I may bring light;
that where there is sadness, I may bring joy.
Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort
than to be comforted;
to understand, than to be understood;
to love, than to be loved.
For it is by self-forgetting that one finds.
It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.
It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life.”
~ (Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi)

For each of the 52 weeks in 2009, I invite you to take one thought at a time and share it with the younger ones, ALL the Children, Teens, and Young Adults in your life. Bring them close to you, call them, and share with them these powerful and inspiring intentions. Then, each single week find ways to honor each one of these divine and sacred wishes with specific actions that allow them to be brought to life.

What do YOU choose to give attention to this New Year? What do YOU choose to share with your own Child and the Children in YOUR life this New Year?
I choose to model the behavior I am looking for in them. I therefore choose to live a life that honors each intention above. 

Where there is a Child, where there is a young soul, may adults around them choose to bring them to the Light! May adults choose to BE the change they wish to witness in the future generations to come! For it is by example that we best lead!
May each adult choose to breath Spirit (inspire) into the lives of all the Children and Younger Ones around them!

Please hug all the Young Ones in your life for me. For I honor and treasure each one of them! 
Happy New Year! Wishes of a joy, peace within, and abundance to you and yours!


In Service and Spirit,

Selma
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired
Child/Youth Honoring Leader
at Dream Believe Inspire

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A Season of GIVING…What will They do?

December 12, 2008

Dear DREAMERS, BELIEVERS, and INSPIRED,

 

Trust to find you in joy and at peace. :)

 

As the holiday season approaches, go to the Child, Teenager, or Young Adult in your life and ask them what they can do this season to GIVE? How do they choose to GIVE?

 

- Will they give of themselves to their loving family and honor them with their LOVE and RESPECT?

- Will they give of their time at a local Homeless Shelter to feed the hungry?

- Will they send a GRATITUDE greeting card to our Service Men and Women in the military away from their families this holiday season?

- Will they go to a Children’s Hospital and read to the Kids or teach them how to Tap?

 

What will they do?

 

- Will they ask for gifts to be given to them in the form of Cash so that they can in turn donate to the Children’s Heart or Cancer research centers or any other Children Charity program?

- Will they purchase a pair of TOMS shoes this holiday season so that a new pair of shoes is given to a Chlid in need?

- Will they donate to the Tappy Bear Foundation so that Children with terminal illnesses will receive their Tappy Bear this holiday to bring them emotional peace?

 

WHAT will they do? And what will you do to support them transforming this season into a season of GIVING?

 

- Toys to a Children shelter?

- Thoughtful notes to emotionally challenged Children?

 

What?

Can YOU think of something?

 

Take a moment and think about a “little” something! Think of a “little” something, for a “little” may actually represent a HUGE EVERYTHING to someone! :)

 

Now go on and share this with the YOUTH in your life. Any age, as long as they are younger than you (it does not hurt to encourage other adults to GIVE this holiday season as well) ;) . If you have little ones, any age between 0-2 years old, you do something on their behalf, record it, take photos of it, and share with them the tradition of GIVING you started on their behalf. Talk to them about it, for they are listening as young as they may be. :)

 

As a Child and Youth Honoring Leader, I encourage you, I inspire you, I kindly ask you to choose touching the lives of those who are younger than you and teach them the magic of GIVING! :)

 

We will be delighted with your choice of sharing with the Facebook Dream Believe Inspire group what GIVING goes on in YOUR life during this precious season. 

 

Make it a GIVING SEASON! This will inspire you to end your year in a spirit of giving. You will find yourself carrying this spirit of GIVING into the New Year.

 

Please Hug all the YOUNG in your life for me.

May your life be a LIFE of GIVING.

 

 

In Gratitude and Light,

 

Selma

Honoring Children, Teens, and Young Adults

Dreamer, Believer, Inspired

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Believe…

December 11, 2008

Go to your Child and whisper in her/his ear:
“Believe in yourself! I believe in you!’
Then hug them really tight! :)  

In my Dream Believe Inspire group in Tampa Bay, Florida, my teenager group seems to go through challenges I believe when I was younger I did not go through, or perhaps I was just not tuned to them and somehow they went by without my conscious awareness.

The pressure is ON and our Teens get lost as to what they should believe. Believe the teachers, the parents, the other Kids who seem to be making good choices, the Kids who seem not to be making good choices. What is good anyhow? 

We must encourage our Children to start believing in themselves. There is a number of lessons we have tought our Children since they came into our lives and those lessons become the foundation for them, the platform. They usually go back there to get answers to their most pressing questions.

If you believe there is something missing in that foundation, build upon it now. It still matters. It is never too late. If there are choices that will make your Teen feel empowered and confident, you must encourage them to believe they CAN make those choices.

Teach them to ask themselves before making a choice that seems to be challenging due to peer pressure or any other reason, teach them to stop, go within, and ask themselves if the choice they are about to make will empower them or limit them. Will it bring joy or despair? Will it benefit them or anyone around them or will it hurt them or someone around them? The answers to these questions will make them reach a choice so much easier and faster.

Now, what they must keep present is the BELIEF that they CAN make this choice despite what others around them think, say, or do. The BELIEF that they can make good choices, that they are couragous individuals who are smart about their choices and who will choose good over bad, fair over unfair, power over limitation, love over hatred, this BELIEF must be there. The BELIEF that they can will give them the courage to actually DO IT. AND this….THIS MAKES THEM BEGGINING TO BECOME ENLIGHTENED BEINGS WITH MINDS OF STEEL!

Encourage your Child to look for ways of being an Enlightened Individual with a Mind Of Steel. Look for ways YOU yourself can evidence and exhibit this very behavior. Teach them by example. And, each opportunity you have of sharing with them YOUR choices, share those with them. Talk to them about it. We all are humans and get off track at times, however, when we BELIEVE we can always DO better, we very quickly, without hesitatoin, stand up after the fall, and move on. We move on  straight to that one place of KNOWING we CAN strive to be the highest version of ourserves AGAIN and AGAIN! :) Because we choose to be individuals with MINDS OF STEEL.

Do you BELIEVE YOU CAN teach this to your Child? Then YOU CAN!
Go for it!

In Belief,

Selma
Child Honoring Leader
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired

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Do you remember? Remember!

October 3, 2008

Do you remember to say remember? Dream Believe Inspire Kids and Young Adults do! Another short message from Sade that can help you be a better YOU! :) The words you choose can make a big difference! Try it and you will see the difference of how you feel when you focus on positive words. Enjoy!

Remember to choose your words carefully

Choose to Remember

Message writen by 12 year old Sade
a member of the Dream Believe Inspire group

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Make your Kid a Millionaire

September 2, 2008

Click HERE for details on the program.It is my intention bring to your awareness programs which will enhance the quality of your Children’s lives. Here is a program I love and believe you can benefit tremendously from.
Teaching our Children how the financial world works and how they can be prepared with plan B, C, D… (passive income streams) as well as how credit really works and the power of investing and saving, all these may proove to be lessons with lifetime benefits.
Avoiding being at the merci of the economical system around us and learning the tools to make us financially responsible and abundant can be crucial. Our Children must understand this at a very early age. We are currently developing a program for various ages, from young kids to young adults, and will be releasing a series of classes on this very issue which we, at Dream Believe Inspire, consider to be one of the 5 pillars to a sound and healthy belief system, financial abundance and stability. :)

Here is the LINK for more information on this product we choose to refer you to.
Enjoy!

In Financial Abundance,
Selma,
Chief Child Honoring Leader to
Dream Believe Inspire
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The Power of Positive Habits

September 1, 2008

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Here is a referral on a product for the Adult who wishes to model the behavior they expect from their Children. This offer is absolutely fantastic! I very carefully research for products that bring the most value to you and your Children. By enhancing your life and improving the quality of your life, you are modeling behaviors your Children will carry throughout their lives.

Here is a link to an offer so FANTASTIC it seems unreal! Check it out. Take about 1 hour of your time daily and invest on this absolutely AMAZING offer full of products you will LOVE. Now, do not invest on this (I know several of you will simply not be able to resist), make yourself a promise right NOW that you will take at least one hour daily to review each DIVINE bonus material! Your life will improve. And as I do the same myself, I promise to bring you back my “interpretation” of the material covered in language that can benefit the Children in your life.

That is what I enjoy doing the most, take the magnificent work being done today to improve the quality of life of adults worldwide and share it with our youth. The earlier they become aware of how to live healthy, centered, and joyful lives, the higher are the chances they will actually experience health, centerdeness, and joy in their lives today and into their adulthood.

Visit this page now and….ENJOY becoming a better YOU!

In Gratitude,

Selma,
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired
Chief Child Honoring Leader

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Say “totally dislike” instead…

July 3, 2008

Want to feel good? Have good thoughts? You should consider what you think about most of the time AND how you express yourself. WORDS have so much power! Today Sade gives you some advice about eliminating a powerfuly negative word from your vocabulary for good. Curious? Enjoy! :)

Words

Say “totally dislike” instead

Sade,
Dream Believe Inspire team member in Tampa Bay
Dreamer, Believer, Inspired