Ok, so your parents are facing challenges in their relationship!
First, remember: You are *not* alone!!! There is a world of Kids of all ages who, just like You, have parents in troubled relationships.
Second: this is *their* relationship! Stay out of it (unless you must interfere because someone’s life is at risk)!
Third: Respect your parents, Love them unconditionally, and BE THERE for them by choosing to be the highest version of yourself! Show up as the Daughter or the Son You believe any parent would wish to have! There is so much power in getting out of our own shoes and place ourselves in the shoes of others! Imagine you have a Kid yourself. Be honest and think of how you would like your kid to show up! What kind of attitudes does he/she embrace? What kind of language does he/she uses? Which way can they choose to be that honors the entire family structure and uplifts it, makes it stronger, happier??!!! That is the Kid you need to become! Because when we become what/who we admire, then we finally truly honor our true destiny and allow it to powerfully manifest! :)
And most importantly: Keep centered! Hold on to your Inner Joy, no matter what! Do not let go your Inner Peace! It may sound easier said than done. However, it CAN be done! Give it a try! Give it an honest try! You will see things *will* change when you choose to look at them differently! With your BIG mind and Your BIG Heart guiding You, there is no turning back! And darkness is not but an illusion! :)
These choices CAN help things get better for all of you at home! ;) And remember, You CAN do this! DBI Love & Light! :)
Selma,
Child/Youth Honoring Leader
Uplifting You in your Self-Discovery Journey!
